Giving Up The Need To Be Special

One of my greatest lessons occurred when I was on a month long silent retreat course in Chennai, India. Just before the 30 days were complete and we were getting ready to return to our homes, we were instructed to sit in a circle with a teacher. She looked lovingly around the circle and asked if ... For the Rest of the Story...

Making Peace With Chaos

Your friend calls you asking for money to pay the rent and news of poor health. A snow storm comes in causing the schools to close and you don't have babysitting. Yikes! There are so many circumstances that cause us stress and suffering. By planning ahead for difficult moments we can program our ... For the Rest of the Story...

The Frustration of Not Being Able to Change Things

“When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ~Viktor Frankl  We all have certain things that are not within our control. Sometimes it is very difficult to determine what circumstances are within our realm to change. The worse thing we can do is ignore ... For the Rest of the Story...

Are you Ready to Find the Right Guy?

You deserve a partner who is loving, ever-present in his relationship with you, and (overall) emotionally mature and available.  Finding that someone, however, can feel like a pipe dream and unattainable. If you have reached the end of your rope and you're completely down on the dating scene, you ... For the Rest of the Story...

Who is Sirah Vettese?

Author Sirah Vettese has years of experience as a relationship coach, counselor, public speaker, and corporate consultant.  Her kindle editions are written to help individuals find answers and feel free to move forward even in the most challenging situations. Sirah Vettese believes that ... For the Rest of the Story...

Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Guy?

Have you ever wondered why the relationships you get into are with someone who does not offer you what your deepest heart longs for? it is that you're always the rejectee and not the rejecter?  Are you worried that you pour too much into relationships, and perhaps you're missing some social queue ... For the Rest of the Story...

Get on the Path to More Fulfilling Relationships

Our capacity to grow, heal and change lies in tracing our own story and characteristics. We each have the full spectrum of good and bad. We all need motivation to confront what isn’t working and get through life’s challenges to find the light at the end of the tunnel. Most of us need help if things ... For the Rest of the Story...